Posted by DAVID on May 06, 19102 at 09:49:25:
In Reply to: borrowing money from your friend will harm your friendship.do you agree or disagree with it? posted by david on May 06, 19102 at 09:34:32:
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: Nowadays,people tend to regard borrowing money from their friends
: as something embarrassing,which will even harm their friendship.
: While others oppose such point of view by questioning what is the true meaning of friendship.as for me,i would provide financial help to my friends who are short of momey .here i would like to make it more convinced from two distinct aspects.
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: On the one hand,just as an old saying goes,'a friend in need is a friend indeed',i stongly believe friends should help each other no matter what happens.As a matter of fact,we live in a society rather than separated islands and nobody could prevent himself from various of problems.Once you find it hard to deal with ,you do need a warm hand.Though,money,as always seen,turns not to be a sensitive topic in current society,it could still hardly overshadow any genuinely valuable relationship such as friendship.And the friendship that we all admire and treasure can never be in terms of money.If borrowing money puts an end to your friendship,you will find such relationship actually prove nothing more than a bad joke,let alone socalled friendship.
: : On the other hand,i should think it twice when confronted with money problems.Firstly,i ought to deliberately reevaluate my own ability .One of my policy goes as,one should learn how to face problems independently.As long as i can cope with it myself,i would never take trouble to anyone else.Secondly,i should take my friends' financial conditions into account.Only after making sure that he or she have no heavy burden to bear,i will try to ask.Last but not the least,i have to make necessary promises in order to erase any worries it may arouse.In general,one should be concerned as much as possible with his friends.
: : In conclusion,friendship,as far as i concerned,means mutual understandings and respects.In the light of this interpretion,money seems too trivial to be mentioned.In a word,a sincere friend will try to offer all you need,only if you do the same the moment he needs help.