Posted by david on May 06, 19102 at 03:42:02:
nowadays,people tend to regard borrowing money from their friends an embarrassing thing to do,which will even harm their friendship.on contrary,others oppose such point of view by questioning what is the true meaning of friendship.as for me,i strongly believe that i would do everything i could to my friend in need,surely including money affairs.and i would like to make it more convinced from the following two sides.
on the one hand,if i were asked to give money,i would do without hesitation.just as an old saying goes,'a friend in need is a friend indeed'.we live in a society more than seperately inlands and nobody could prevent himself from any kinds of problems.once you find it hard to deal with some thorny things ,you does need a hand.though,money,as always seen,turns not to be a sensitive topic in current society,actually hardly overshadows any real valuable relationship such as friendship.that is because friendship that we all admire and treasure can never be in terms of money.if borrowing money puts an end to your friendship,you will find such relationship you once valued prove to be nothing more than a bad joke,not mention friendship.
on the other hand,i should think more when confronted with money problems.firstly,i ought to deliberately reevaluate my own ability .one of my policy goes as,one should learn how to face problems independently.as long as i can cope with it myself,i would never take trouble to anyone else.secondly,i should take my friends' financial conditions into account.only after making sure that he or she have no heavy burden to bear,i will try to ask.last but not the least,i have to make necessary promises in order to erase any worries it may arouse.in general,one should be concerned as much as possible with his friends.
in conclusion,friendship,as far as i concerned,means mutual understandings and respects.in the light of this interpretion,money seems too trivial to mention.no matter what happens,a true friend will try to offer all you need,only if you do the same the moment he needs help.